Single at it's Best!

09/04/2013 – Tuesday

     Are you a single with no boyfriend or girlfriend? Are you jealous or annoyed whenever you see couples doing all the ‘cute’ things in public and right in your sights? If so then, you should stop that because I am here to enlighten your day. :P

       I am a 17 year old teenager who is growing into a young adult soon and I am proud to say that I never had an official girlfriend till now. xD In other words, I’m a ‘forever alone’ dude! Well that sounded kind of pitiful... I got rejected just about 3 times by 2 different girls. My confession got rejected 2 times by the first girl and another time by the second girl…. I was heart-broken and crushed at those times but for some reason, I guess I’m fine with it now because I have come to realize that being a single is not so bad after all. :3         

     Since I am a guy myself, I’ll just elaborate for guys how you are benefiting from being a single. *ahem*ahem* First and foremost, when you’re single it also means that you are FREE and not being ‘tied to a tree’. No commitments and no promises, you have nothing holding you back! For example, you accidentally flirt with a girl. So what? You don’t have a girlfriend getting all jealous, making the situation complicated by just 1 simple matter and ruining your mood. You won’t end up hurting anyone and you’ll just be doing good to yourself but do make sure the girl you’re flirting with does not have a boyfriend or else you’re just looking for trouble. :P

     Second of all, you can date with any girl limitlessly. Obviously you won’t be going on a ‘date’ date with the girl but a date as friends will be enough for you. If you hope for doing stuff like kissing and holding hands, then that’s a different case, you’d either have to find yourself a girlfriend or just hire some…*ahem* you should know yourself. If you already have a girlfriend, going on date with another girl even if just as friends, you’ll totally hurt your girlfriend for sure. It’s already like cheating on her. Since you’re a single, you have no worries about that. Plan a schedule, make a list of dates…. that is if you can pile up that many. Hahahaha!!! Good luck, fellow single dudes.

     Last but not least, you are frickin free from all the complicated emotional issues. You won’t feel lonely because…most of us have friends. Well for the minority, I have no comment. Friends will keep you company all the time. The other day a friend of mine just told me, "I tend to get bored of people who sticks around too much and that is why I never look for a serious relationship". Sounds true, doesn’t it? You may not want to admit it but I guess it is true for some of us. You won’t have to go through heart breaks from being rejected by a girl or stuff like breaking up and being cheated on because you’re already content with your current being, as a single.

Anyways, if you tend to feel lonely once in a while as a guy then kindly ask your ‘single’ female friends for dates, do give reasonable explanations and just have fun! I am sure that some of them who are open-minded wouldn’t mind going on a date with you as friends. Who knows? You two might even end up dating each other but let’s not go that far yet. :3

     In conclusion, being single also means you have endless wonders of freedom. Enjoy being single at it’s best…while it lasts. ;)

On the side note, I’m just here to give advice on the benefits of being a single. I admit that I did went on ‘dates as friends’ with some of my friends who are girls before but do not think of me as some kind of ‘douche bag’ who dates just any girl and ‘accidentally’ flirt all the time. ==  Seriously, don’t do that. ==